Coming Home to Your Inner Knowing: 7 Ways to Awaken Intuition

What if you already know?

What if there’s a voice inside you that’s never steered you wrong—
only been drowned out by the noise?

Intuition doesn’t come from effort.
It comes from softening. Listening.
Clearing space for the quiet to rise.

You don’t need to seek it.
You just need to make enough room to feel it.

7 Ways to Start Tuning In

1. Step Away From Social Media

It’s loud in there.

Even when you think you’re just “scrolling,” your energy is being siphoned. Social media fills your head with other people’s ideas, desires, and identities—and that static drowns out your own voice.

Taking a break, even a short one, can create the space you need to return to yourself.
Use that space to meditate, breathe, or simply sit in stillness—anything that helps you tune back into your own frequency.

The less noise, the more clarity.
The more presence, the more you remember.

2. Prioritize Sleep Hygiene

Your intuition needs a clear vessel.

Turn off screens at least an hour before bed.
Reduce blue light. Let yourself rise with the sun.

When you honor your natural rhythms, the wisdom inside you begins to whisper more clearly.

3. Take Breaks From Mind-Altering Substances

Alcohol, caffeine, weed, sugar, nicotine—they change your chemistry and can mask anxiety or dull clarity.

There’s nothing wrong with you if you use them.
But taking conscious breaks lets you notice how they affect you.

Sometimes the crutches we lean on most are the very things that muffle our deeper knowing.

4. Move Your Body (For the Love of It)

Not to punish it or “fix” it—just to feel alive in it.

Intuition lives in the body.
It speaks through sensation.

Dance, walk, stretch, roll, flow.
Let it be somatic exploration, not a workout.

And get bodywork.
Let skilled hands help you come home to yourself,
releasing what’s stuck and reconnecting you to what’s true.

5. Eat Well, Nourish Gently

Make your own food when you can.
Bless it. Smell it. Taste it.

This is how you build trust with your body—by feeding it with love and presence.

6. Make Something (Just Because)

Creativity is a sacred channel.

Journal stream-of-consciousness style.
Paint blindfolded. Tear up magazines and make vision boards.

No outcome needed. The process itself is a conversation with your soul.

7. Spend Time With Kids, Animals, or in Solitude

They don’t filter. They don’t force.
Kids and animals live in the now—fully present, fully honest.
They show you how to trust what’s real and respond from instinct, not expectation.

And solitude? That’s sacred too.
It’s where your own rhythm gets louder.
Where your energy recalibrates and your inner voice has room to rise.

Let presence—whether with others or with yourself—remind you of what you forgot.

✨ Journal Prompts to Awaken Intuition

• When do I feel most connected to myself?

• What do I know deep down, even if I don’t want to admit it?

• Where in my body do I feel “yes”? Where do I feel “no”?

• What kind of silence feels nourishing to me?

• What have I been overriding that deserves my attention?

Final Thought

You’re not broken. You’re not behind. You’re not lost.
Like many of us, It is possible that you might a little out of tune with your natural signal.

And every small choice to slow down, to listen, to be with yourself—
brings you closer to that unshakable inner guidance you’ve had all along.

Ready to Go Deeper?

Come join me for a yoga class, a bodywork session, or a community circle.
This is what we’re here for—to remember who we are, together.

The Transformative Power of Feeling Seen: Why It’s the Key to Fulfillment

The Transformative Power of Feeling Seen: Why It’s the Key to Fulfillment

Have you ever experienced the profound relief of someone truly getting you—not just your words, but the emotions behind them? Or the quiet ache of being in a room full of people but feeling completely invisible? These moments remind us of the vital human need to feel seen. It’s more than recognition; it’s the foundation of meaningful connection, emotional healing, and personal growth.

In today’s fast-paced, tech-driven world, feeling seen is rare, yet it’s something we all crave. The good news? You can cultivate this experience in your life—starting with yourself.

What Does It Mean to Feel Seen?

To feel seen is to know that someone values and understands the essence of who you are. It’s when someone looks beyond your surface and truly recognizes your experiences, emotions, and individuality.

The difference between being noticed and feeling seen:

• Being noticed is superficial; someone knows you exist.

• Feeling seen is profound; someone understands and values who you are at your core.

✨ When you feel seen, it’s like a light is turned on inside of you. ✨
It reminds you that your emotions are valid, your existence matters, and your presence has meaning.

Why Feeling Seen Matters

1. It Validates Your Humanity:
Feeling seen affirms that your feelings, struggles, and victories are real and meaningful.

2. It Builds Emotional Safety:
When someone truly sees you, you feel safe enough to let your guard down and show up authentically.

3. It Encourages Self-Acceptance:
Being seen by others helps you see yourself more clearly, encouraging you to embrace your strengths and flaws alike.

4. It Heals Old Wounds:
For those who’ve felt invisible or dismissed—especially in childhood—being seen can mend deep emotional scars.

5. It Strengthens Relationships:
Genuine connection thrives when both people feel seen and valued for who they are.

Why Seeing Your Children Matters

For parents, the importance of truly seeing your children cannot be overstated. Children naturally crave acknowledgment, understanding, and validation from their caregivers. When you take the time to truly see your child, you:

• Teach them self-worth: They learn their thoughts and feelings matter.

• Create emotional safety: They feel secure expressing themselves without fear of judgment.

• Nurture their authenticity: They’re encouraged to embrace their unique qualities.

• Prevent emotional wounds: They’re less likely to carry the pain of being unseen into adulthood.

• Build lasting connection: They’ll grow into adults who value and maintain a healthy relationship with you.

A Personal Story: The Power of Feeling Seen

Years ago, I was caught in a cycle of seeking validation from people who didn’t have the capacity to see me. I would pour my heart out, hoping for understanding, only to feel more invisible.

The turning point came when I decided to see myself first. I began journaling, reflecting on what truly mattered to me, and surrounding myself with people who valued depth and authenticity.

✨ One moment stands out: a conversation with a close friend. I was vulnerable, sharing something deeply personal. Instead of rushing to offer advice, they simply listened, nodded, and said, “I see you.” Those three words shifted everything. I felt safe, understood, and profoundly connected. ✨

It was a reminder of what’s possible when we surround ourselves with people who can truly see us.

Navigating Family Relationships Where You Aren’t Seen

Some family members may never be able to see you for who you’ve become. Instead, they may continue to see you through the lens of who you were in the past.

For me, reconciling my relationship with my father has been one of the most challenging and painful experiences of my life. He cannot see me for who I am, nor does he seem to want to. This lack of acknowledgment has forced me to confront the thanklessness of trying to bridge a gap that isn’t reciprocated.

I’ve had to:

• Grieve the relationship I wished we could have.

• Accept that my energy is better spent elsewhere.

• Take steps to protect my peace, even though it’s an ongoing process.

✨ Sometimes, taking a break from these relationships can create space for healing and growth. ✨
This time apart might even allow for a new dynamic to emerge, one where mutual understanding becomes possible.

How to Surround Yourself With People Who Can See You

Not everyone has the capacity to truly see you, and that’s okay. The key is to:

1. Seek Relationships With Empathy:

Spend time with people who listen deeply, validate your feelings, and make an effort to understand your perspective.

2. Prioritize Mutual Energy:

Healthy relationships involve effort on both sides. Look for connections where care and understanding flow freely.

3. Notice How You Feel:

Pay attention to how you feel after spending time with someone.
✨ If you leave feeling uplifted and valued, that’s a relationship to cherish. ✨

4. Be Intentional About Vulnerability:

Share your true self with those who’ve earned your trust. Vulnerability is a gift, and the right people will hold it with care.

How to Start Seeing Yourself

Feeling seen begins with seeing yourself. Here’s how:

• Journaling: Write about your emotions, desires, and experiences. Explore what makes you feel alive and what feels misaligned.

• Meditation: Create quiet moments to tune into your inner voice and reconnect with your truth.

• Celebrate Small Wins: Acknowledge your efforts, no matter how small. Validation starts within.

Seeing Others: A Reciprocal Gift

The more we practice seeing others, the more we invite that energy into our lives.

Ways to truly see others:

• Listen deeply without interrupting or offering solutions.

• Reflect back what they share to show you understand.

• Celebrate their unique qualities and contributions.

✨ When you truly see someone, you create a ripple effect of connection. ✨

Final Thoughts: Build a Life Where You Are Seen

Feeling seen isn’t just a luxury—it’s essential to our well-being. It’s a reminder that we are worthy of love, connection, and understanding.

Start with yourself. Reflect on your needs, honor your truth, and seek out relationships that celebrate you. Let go of the connections that don’t align and invest your energy in those that uplift and inspire you.

If you’re a parent, remember: Truly seeing your child is one of the greatest gifts you can offer. It shapes their self-worth, strengthens your bond, and lays the foundation for their emotional well-being.

✨ You deserve to feel seen—not just in moments of strength, but in the fullness of who you are. Seek those connections. They’ll transform your life. ✨